Ari Lennox Jokes About The Traumas Of Dating "Struggle Rappers"

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The singer says these days, she's just looking for someone with a kind heart.

It seems like these days, damn near everyone is a rapper. If you have yet to pick up the mic or don't desire to, chances are you know of someone who has dreams of making waves in Hip Hop. Ari Lennox has met her fair share of rappers looking for a moment in the spotlight and during her recent trip to The Breakfast Club, the age/sex/location singer cracked jokes with the hosts about the terrors of dating up-and-comers.

Charlamagne The God questioned Lennox about "secret rappers," or those that don't outright tell someone they're dating that their occupation is an aspiring musician. He wanted to know which "struggle rapper" traumatized her. "Oh, there's so many," she answered. Someone added, "People we'll never hear of," and amid laughter, she agreed.

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"Like, they just won't say it 'til like, you like them. And it's just like, 'Well, I'm 'bout to go to the studio.' What?! Why?! What studio?" the singer said. Angela Yee asked if her suitors act as if they don't know who she is when they express interest. "Yeah. I've been—they'll never admit it, but I've definitely been in a relationship where he acted like I was not who I am at all. Yeah."

"And I was trying to feel appreciated and it was...he kept trying to say that it was ego, you know? It's not all about you, type thing. But really, I just felt like he always kinda diminished everything about me. Kinda pretended like the singing part didn't exist."

Things took a hilarious turn after Charlamagne chimed in once again, but after the laughter dissipated, Lennox said all she wants in a partner is someone who is kind.

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Since 2019, Erika Marie has worked as a journalist for HotNewHipHop, covering music, film, television, art, fashion, politics, and all things regarding entertainment. With 20 years in the industry under her belt, Erika Marie moved from a writer on the graveyard shift at HNHH to becoming a Features Editor, highlighting long-form content and interviews with some of Hip Hop’s biggest stars. She has had the pleasure of sitting down with artists and personalities like DJ Jazzy Jeff, Salt ’N Pepa, Nick Cannon, Rah Digga, Rakim, Rapsody, Ari Lennox, Jacquees, Roxanne Shante, Yo-Yo, Sean Paul, Raven Symoné, Queen Naija, Ryan Destiny, DreamDoll, DaniLeigh, Sean Kingston, Reginae Carter, Jason Lee, Kamaiyah, Rome Flynn, Zonnique, Fantasia, and Just Blaze—just to name a few. In addition to one-on-one chats with influential public figures, Erika Marie also covers content connected to the culture. She’s attended and covered the BET Awards as well as private listening parties, the Rolling Loud festival, and other events that emphasize established and rising talents. Detroit-born and Long Beach (CA)-raised, Erika Marie has eclectic music taste that often helps direct the interests she focuses on here at HNHH. She finds it necessary to report on cultural conversations with respect and honor those on the mic and the hardworking teams that help get them there. Moreover, as an advocate for women, Erika Marie pays particular attention to the impact of femcees. She sits down with rising rappers for HNHH—like Big Jade, Kali, Rubi Rose, Armani Caesar, Amy Luciani, and Omerettà—to gain their perspectives on a fast-paced industry.

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