The Joe Budden Podcast Weighs In On T.I.'s Hymen Controversy

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They don't think the rapper should have talked about it publicly.

Social media was recently turned upside down after T.I. revealed on Nadia Moham and Nazanin Mandi's Ladies Like Us podcast that he visits the gynecologist with his 18-year-old daughter Deyjah Harris to make sure that she's a virgin by having the physician check for her hymen. Since the podcast aired, T.I. has been heavily criticized by the public for what they call "policing" a woman's vagina, and the men over on The Joe Budden Podcast discussed the controversy on a recent episode. Joe and his crew didn't want to get into talking about a teenage girl's body parts, but they did want to share their takes on the situation.

"That's another rule of mine. I don't tell parents how they should parent," Joe said. Mal later added that he understood T.I. was attempting to communicate that he is an overprotective father. "I don't think he should have said this on a public platform, one," Mal said, adding, "And two, if you and your daughter have that relationship, then I think that should be a relationship between you and your daughter." They all agreed that T.I.'s move to share that information with the public about his teenage daughter wasn't a good look.

"How you maneuver as a famous parent to your of age [child], like they're 18 and they have to really go out and deal with the world, school classmates, their peers, their friends, it's important," Joe said. "I even think twice about the things I even write under my kid's Instagram because I don't know what you got going on, how you are with your friends, I don't know how they're receiving you. I don't want to embarrass you."

It's clear the Joe wanted to be careful about speaking specifically about T.I.'s relationship with Deyjah, but it seems that the hosts take more issue with the publicity of it all more than the actual act of T.I.'s request. Watch the clip below.


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Since 2019, Erika Marie has worked as a journalist for HotNewHipHop, covering music, film, television, art, fashion, politics, and all things regarding entertainment. With 20 years in the industry under her belt, Erika Marie moved from a writer on the graveyard shift at HNHH to becoming a Features Editor, highlighting long-form content and interviews with some of Hip Hop’s biggest stars. She has had the pleasure of sitting down with artists and personalities like DJ Jazzy Jeff, Salt ’N Pepa, Nick Cannon, Rah Digga, Rakim, Rapsody, Ari Lennox, Jacquees, Roxanne Shante, Yo-Yo, Sean Paul, Raven Symoné, Queen Naija, Ryan Destiny, DreamDoll, DaniLeigh, Sean Kingston, Reginae Carter, Jason Lee, Kamaiyah, Rome Flynn, Zonnique, Fantasia, and Just Blaze—just to name a few. In addition to one-on-one chats with influential public figures, Erika Marie also covers content connected to the culture. She’s attended and covered the BET Awards as well as private listening parties, the Rolling Loud festival, and other events that emphasize established and rising talents. Detroit-born and Long Beach (CA)-raised, Erika Marie has eclectic music taste that often helps direct the interests she focuses on here at HNHH. She finds it necessary to report on cultural conversations with respect and honor those on the mic and the hardworking teams that help get them there. Moreover, as an advocate for women, Erika Marie pays particular attention to the impact of femcees. She sits down with rising rappers for HNHH—like Big Jade, Kali, Rubi Rose, Armani Caesar, Amy Luciani, and Omerettà—to gain their perspectives on a fast-paced industry.

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